Saturday I went out on my first real garage sale crawl with my friend, the amazing, fun, funny, elegant, Patricia Rogers who is one of the people who makes our local science fiction convention so wonderful. She is a very knowledgeable antique collector, and she has a technique for this that puts many military commanders to shame. First she checks the newspaper ads, then she marks on a laminated map the locations of the sales, she then plots the route for maximum coverage with minimum driving.
We set off at 8:00 am. Pat picked me up and we headed into the wilds of El Dorado. Most of our stops consisted of baby cloths, toys, and general junk, but at one house there was a small collection of insignia pins and medals from the civil war to WWII. I happened to mention that I was more interested in English insignia, and the man went into the house and returned with a box and a plastic grocery sack filled with more items. His father had been a collector, and the son didn’t particularly care so he was selling them at ridiculously low prices. I got a remount pin from WWI — very elaborate with a brass frame holding a rearing silver horse, and a Berkshire pin which is a copy of one of the prehistoric chalk horses that you find on hillsides throughout England.
Among the pins and medals was a Polish ribbon and medal issued to Auchwitz survivors. I looked at it long and hard because I wrote a book about the Holocaust (which I’ve been unable to sell. Maybe someday) Anyway, it was an incredible piece of history, but I find that entire episode so deeply disturbing, that I ultimately put it back. This is not to say that I want to sweep it under the rug, or not look at these episodes of human barbarity. I think “never forget” is an excellent policy, but it was just too much for me emotionally.
Next we headed into town and an estate sale at a beautiful compound up near Museum Hill. There was a main house, guest house with loft, separate garage on a lot of acres. Everything was for sale. Furniture, rugs, dishes, pots and pans, etc. etc. I love seeming houses, but there was something disturbing to me about strangers arriving and breaking up this home. It made me reflect on how I have no children, and that will, most likely, be how my estate is settled. Not that I’ll know or care — I’ll be dead. I mentioned my reaction to Pat, and she had the most beautiful response that I found very comforting.
Kids usually don’t want their parents “junk”. Think about the son selling off his father’s collection of medals and insignia. They have their own interests, and they shouldn’t be forced to honor yours. When your property is sold after your death it will go into the hands of people who share that interest, and they will be thrilled to have that small object and will treasure it. As Pat said, “I think we just borrow things for awhile and them we pass them along.”
We didn’t find anything else of note — oh, I did buy a deviled egg container complete with little dished trays and a lid — because I make really great deviled eggs, and I’m constantly asked to bring them to parties and barbecues. Do you know how hard it is to transport deviled eggs on a plate?
We had lunch at a nice Indian restaurant, and then toyed with going to see Sex and The City, or go to see Vento. We both voted for Vento. Pat was a great sport, and even let me ride him. She took a lot of pictures so maybe some will come out okay and I’ll post them here. It is really hard to photograph horses, especially with digital cameras.
I ended the evening dining on part of a Stouffers lasagna, a tossed green salad, and I watched a tiny bit of the Andromeda Strain. It struck me as kind of pointless. It was a really good movie, back in the day. Now I really have to get to work on my paladin story, and get it finished.